wtf unsettling, much??

If there's one thing about our relationship that blows, it's both of our pig-headedness and selfishness always outdoing each other. There was no reason for him to hang up on me like that and now that I think about it, it's not the awkward conversation that pissed me off but the confusion I have now that I don't honestly know if it was intentional because he was angry at my dumbness or if he just accidentally hung up because his new phone sucks. And the thing that pisses me off the most is our equal reluctance to call back and finish the conversation and let it end well, either him call me back and say sorry I didn't mean to hang up, or for me to call him back and say "Just come and get my stoopid ATM card and figure it out, I'm at work and can't just leave, sorry." See, it's pointless interactions like that that make me analyze and think way too much, knowing in the end it doesn't matter, we love each other just fine still... Right?